Books Regarding Collaborative Divorce

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Books Specific to Collaborative Divorce for the Public:
The Collaborative Way to Divorce : The Revolutionary Method that Results in Less Stress, Lower Costs, and Happier Kids–Without Going to Court Ousky, Ron and Webb, Stuart, Hudson Street Press, 2006. This is an excellent book and is written for someone contemplating a divorce. It is well written and shorter than the Pauline Tesler book — also written in 2006.
Collaborative Divorce: The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure Your Family, Resolve Legal Issues, and Move On With Your Life Tesler, Pauline and Thompson, Peggy. This is the other book for individuals who are considering the collaborative divorce option. It is somewhat longer than the book by Stu Webb. It is written for the non-professional (although any collaborative professional should also read this book)
Books for Collaborative Divorce Professionals:
Collaborative Law: Achieving Effective Resolution in Divorce without Litigation: 2nd Edition 2008 book by Pauline Tesler. This book is written for lawyers and should be read by lawyers practicing collaborative divorce.

Collaborative Divorce Handbook: Helping Families Without Going to Court.

 

 

Article Online Regarding Building a Collaborative Divorce Practice by Forest Mosten.   

Forest Mosten, 2009.  Any collaborative divorce professional should also read this book.  The opening chapter on the so called paradigm shift is well written.  His third chapter on using mediation as part of the collaborative divorce process is well done.  For collaborative professionals he has an excellent chapter on howto build your collaborative practice.  Click here to view a sample chapter. ~

Another good resource for collaborative divorce professionals is his article titled, “Building a Successful Law Practice Without Ever Going To Court”

Books Regarding Negotiation
Getting to Yes: Negotiating `Agreement Without Giving In 1991, Penguin – Fisher, Roger; Ury, William; Patton, Bruce. This is generally considered to be the “Bible” of principled negotiations.
Beyond Winning Mnookin, Robert, (2000, Harvard University Press). This book is good reading for the collaborative professional.
Getting Past No, Negotiating Your Way From Confrontation to Cooperation Ury, William L., (1993, Bantam, Doubleday Dell Pub.), Getting to Yes (see above under Fisher). (For the collaborative professional). The most recent of these books is The Power of a Positive No: How to Say No and Still Get to Yes (February 2007).
Beyond Reason: Using Emotions as You Negotiate Roger Fisher (co-author of Getting to Yes) and Daniel Shapiro. This 2006 book is excellent reading for a collaborative professional.  But as with such books as Difficult Conversations, Getting to Yes, etc., it is a great book for anyone to read. The preface states, “Whether negotiating with an angry boss or an outraged teenager, emotions can derail you. Properly treated, however, they can help you achieve the results you want. This book shows you how.”
Communicaiton Books Helpful for Collaborative Pracitce:
Difficult Conversations, How to Discuss What Matters Most 1999, Viking Press – Stone, Douglas; Patton, Bruce; Heen, Sheila (Harvard Negotiation Project). This book is great reading for a collaborative professional as well as any individual. It starts, “Asking for a raise. Ending a relationship. Getting a critical performance review. Saying no to someone in need… At work, at home and across the backyard fence, difficult conversations are attempted or avoided every day.”
Taking the War Out of the Words: The Art of Powerful Non-Defensive Communication
Sharon Ellison (2002). This is an excellent resource for collaborative professionals and for individuals going through a collaborative divorce (or even seeking to avoid a divorce) is Taking the War out of the Words. The tenants work equally well in negotiating traditional adversarial negotiation but are especially well geared toward collaborative representation. It is recommended that you listen to this book on CD.
Books on the Role of the Lawyer Generally
The New Lawyer Julie Macfarlane, May 20, 2008. 
Transforming Practices, Tenth Anniversary Edition: Finding Joy and Satisfaction in the Legal Life Steven Keeva, (August 16, 2010)
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